So I have a wonderful girlfriend, she’s not the best looking girl i’ve ever seen or even slept with but she looks fucking stunning in a good dress with some makeup and nice hair.
She’s kind and supportive and intelligent but she has serious hang ups that are completely killing any and all attraction for her. Picture this, you go out for a nice meal, you take her to a fancy restaurant and spoil her, she looks great, you have an awesome time together. You walk back home together and you think “wow i’d love to sleep with this girl, the love of my life, this confident, gorgeous woman”. You start to make a move and she returns with “wow glad we are home, i hate wearing makeup, im going to take it off and get in my pyjamas, now let me cuddle you like im a lost fucking child”.
Is this some sort of cruel joke? Does the concept of sex and attraction just not enter her head? Does she not realise that there was some sort of magic in the air, that there was a mood? A flow? A fucking attraction to her looking so wonderful?
Because now all she quite frankly looks like a frumpy fucking mess, nicely curled hair is now tied back into that fucking godawful bun, black baggy tracksuit bottoms on and that stupid ratty yellow t-shirt she wears as pyjamas. Makeup is gone and we are back to the same old stupid shit again.
I just can’t fathom it, i literally cannot understand how she doesn’t consider the effect this has. I have never had a partner who can send me from 100% to 0 in so little time.
She says it “makes her more comfortable”. You know what? fuck your comfort. Do you think its fucking comfortable getting up at 7:30 to go to the fucking gym and work out? NO it fucking sucks but i do it anyway. fuck your comfort, fuck your insecurities, fuck you never being on the same fucking page you absolute imbecile.