My boyfriend, who is a trainee doctor, got very drunk tonight. He can’t handle alcohol and after six years, this has come up many times in our relationship. I adore him. We had separate things on tonight but met up to walk home. He was very drunk and couldnt open the door so i moved him aside and went in. His response was to throw one of our lawn chairs into the neighbours garden. He is not a violent person. To be honest, he is wonderful. He builds me up, makes me laugh and is my safe space. I am devestated. My mother is an alcoholic and although i drink regularly and enjoy it, this scares me. He scares me. He drinks to excess, to become someone I don’t know and he is frightening. I keep telling myself he will grow out of it but at 27, what am i really waiting for. I can’t tell anyone i know well because i know what they will say. I am so heartbroken. What now.