Alright so I have a friends with benefits I met on tinder and everything has been going fine up until now when he dropped the bombshells that he literally broke up with his girlfriend when he matched with me (same day), which makes me a rebound, which is fine. I know I’m only there for sex. What gets on my nerves is now he’s speaking about his ex girlfriend and that he misses her and all that. Normally I wouldn’t care but it’s really made me angry because he’s saying shit like “if it fucks with me too much we’ll stop”. What about me? What about what I want? Why does he get to dictate what happens and I’m expected to say yes it’s okay when it’s something that affects both of us. I’m so angry about the whole situation. If you’re still hung up on your girlfriend, don’t use me to get your rocks off and project your feelings onto me.