My family is in town and my little cousin won’t stop annoying me. She takes my things and doesn’t put them back, throws my stuff on the floor, and even cut some of my painting brushes and just left the strands around my room. Don’t I have a right to get mad? It seems she only does this to me, and when I try to talk to my mom about why this is making me mad, she never understands. She says I shouldn’t get this annoyed and they’re family so I shouldn’t be getting mad. Then my mom gets mad at me, making me feel even worse. Is she right? Should I not be getting annoyed? Nobody else knows what it’s like because she never does this to them. My mom thinks I’m over reacting but she never will understand how I feel. I don’t know what to do and feel In this helpless cycle of getting annoyed and then getting sad because my mom and dad start getting even more mad at me! I don’t know what to do and have no one to talk to about it. It’s just this little cousin so I can’t single her out and hang out with all of my other cousins ?? We all feel this way about her, but it’s even worse for me because she’s always around me. When she annoys me, I get irritable and people get mad at me TOO. I honestly don’t know what to do and hope there is someone out their that can tell me if I’m just over reacting or have a right to be upset. Thank you.