Ok. No I am not a male, but I can sooo understand that the hole spousal support is bull shit. My husband and I didn’t agree that he stay home and I work to support the family. He is just a lazy ass son of a bitch!!! Why should my freedom cost me half my income when he chose to be a beadbeat husband!!! Now if I get a divorce he will get the sympathy card cause he didn’t even take care of himself medically. Stupid ass even waisted transplants because he didn’t follow doctors instructions. Now I feel like a slave stuck to his stupid ass!!! Wish I would have never waited till the kids were grown. Should have left his ass a long time ago. Ugh!!!