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Ugly, creepy guys!

It’s not “creepy” if he’s hot. I freely admit it. When a very attractive stranger approaches me and tells me I’m beautiful, it brightens my day. When a guy who is short, fat or balding does it, it makes my skin crawl no matter how tactful he is about it. I just want him to go away. I’m not alone in feeling this way. Most women feel the same, but hide the true extent of it when the guys are around.

If said ugly guy doesn’t pick up on social cues that I’m not interested in getting to know him, it makes me even more uncomfortable than just him being there already does. I have to deal with this sh*t constantly everywhere I go, and it never stops. Guys, please, learn to KNOW YOUR PLACE!!! We ARE visual, just like you are. We only want GOOD LOOKING guys to approach us. If you’re any combination of short, balding, fat or 10 years older than me, please, for your own sake and mine, kindly F*CK OFF!
I don’t date your kind. Yes, I mean “kind” as in “different species”, because that’s what you are to me. I’m a human being, not an uggo like you, and I don’t do bestiality. You should be socially aware enough to know disinterest when it’s right in front of your homely ass face! Ugly men who act “confident” act out of character, and that’s creepy. Know your place and leave your genetic superiors ALONE!! It really is that simple. Don’t like it? THAT’S TOO D*MN BAD!! You’re not entitled to sex or companionship.

Many of you men reading this will tell yourselves I’m just a b*tch and delude yourselves into thinking I’m in the minority, or that this is satire. No, it isn’t. These are my honest feelings, and I’m NOT alone in feeling this way. Most women DO secretly feel this way, and THAT’s why we have sexual harassment laws! Too many of you genetic failures and guys who have aged past your prime don’t know your place and think you’re allowed the same social freedoms as a hot guy, so we need those laws to keep you uggos in your place. Either accept your role as someone of a lower class and ACT ACCORDINGLY, or it’s sexual harassement. So f*cking what if I let a hot guy grab my ass? That does NOT mean it’s OK for YOU to do it!!!

If you’re not hot, we see right through your so-called “confident” act and know exactly what you’re doing. It’s laughable. You idiots really actually believe we’re “less visual” than you, and that alone is pretty creepy. You don’t know your league and think you have a chance with someone in a higher class. Newsflash, boys: The only pretty girls who date plain guys are whoring themselves for some selfish benefit, and you guys are too f*cking stupid to see it. That’s why so many of you end up divorced and getting played for fools, then try to say all women are users and gold diggers. Um…hello?? Honest women either date hot guys or stay single, so of course you’re gonna meet a lot of dishonest people if you’re always trying to date someone above you on the sexual totem pole!

Want a girl that can actually love you instead of using you? STICK TO YOUR OWN KIND!! If you’re not attracted to women of your own class, you need to improve your looks and move up. Get plastic surgery if you have to. Without good looks, your “awesome personality” is worthless for anything but platonic friendship, and your earning potential is only “attractive” to materialistic girls. If you want genuine love or desire from a woman, she has to be turned on by you in a sexual way. Real attraction is entirely about looks, and ONLY looks. If you try to circumvent that rule, you show an entitlement mentality, and it’s obvious you think we owe you our sexual servicies.

I have an advanced degree and make a good enough living on my own, so I don’t need your earning potential or “generosity”. I have plenty of platonic friends, so I don’t need you for that, either. The only thing I need a man for is sex and reproduction. I can easily land a hot guy for marriage and relationships, so I don’t have to prostitute myself out to an average looking guy just so I can get married and have kids.

Think I’m here only to rake the guys over the coals? No. I have something to say to some of the women out there, too – like those who date plain lookin guys and hand out chances like chocolates to guys they don’t find so hot once they start getting desperate for marriage. Do you seriouly not realize how this collective settling behavior perpetuates patriarchy, male entitlement, rape culture and all the other things we fight so hard against?!?

The very core of patriarchy and all associated problems is rooted in a myth that so many men honestly believe – that we are less “visual” than they are. Many of us continue to bow to society’s pressure, outwardly pretending this myth is reality, often even to the point of essentially prostituting ourselves out of desperation for marriage/kids and rationalizing it as “love”. Then, we tell ourselves that this is what “mature” women do, because the idea that we are prostituting ourselves is too painful to accept. Men see our settling behavior and assume it’s “proof” that looks aren’t that important to us, then they wonder why they have such a lousy sex life with their girlfriends or wives.

It isn’t just patriarchy alone that pushes the “looks don’t matter” lie. Those women who settle for plain looking guys are traitors amoung us, because they play along to protect their own personal interests, and themselves shame any woman who refuses to whore herself by giving the not-hots “a chance”. Sorry, b*tch, but refusing to be bullied into glorified prostitution doesn’t make me “shallow”, and only dating hot guys doesn’t make me a “slut”. I refuse to date a guy I’m not attracted to, because unlike you, I CANNOT in good conscience sell a guy a fake illusion of “love” just to fill some unmet need. Many of you are guilty of this, and you know EXACTLY what you’re doing!

What I’m attracted to, sexually, has nothing to do with my character as a person. Yes, I want a hot guy, and I DON’T apologize for that! I can afford to be picky because I can easily get what I want. If that makes me “shallow”, than so be it. At least I’m not a settling, two-faced WHORE who lacks the self respect to stay single if she can’t get something long-term with a man that turns her on!

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  1. Tikal

    How ironic would it be if OP or the others who are repulsed by ugly guys met a Ted Bundy type? Seriously, having a preference is fine and dandy but being outwardly disgusted by something beyond a person’s control is idiotic. I’d show little sympathy for you if you were placed in that situation.

    • Anonymous

      I won’t go as far as to say that the OP is so vile that she deserves to be murdered (not saying you suggested that), but, yes, it would be very ironic. And given her hate speech, I would not show “little” sympathy for her, I would show NO sympathy. I feel the same way towards those who bullied Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris.

      I agree that she is free to have a preference, but she needs to have the decency to shut her fucking mouth about those that don’t meet her preference. She is not so special that she is immune from guys approaching her in public with interest. No one is.

  2. Anonymous

    WOW!!! YOUR A FUCKING BITCH!!

  3. Anonymous

    So true one time a hot girl got robbed I didn’t help her because I wasn’t good looking .

  4. Anonymous

    Everyone who is judging her is probably either one of the guys she is ranting about or a woman who has sold herself out to a beta type. There are so many men out there who won’t date fat women, short women, tall women, successful women, even who won’t date pretty women but gods forbid a woman have preferences of her own. I guess I must be a “cunt” too. I love the sexy bad boy (the only difference is I see them for what they are and I don’t expect to or want to change their ways because if they weren’t bad boys I wouldn’t like them anymore, I accept whst goes along with dating one) and I actually detest “nice guys”. I don’t respect a guy who is clingy, fawns over me or who would let me walk all over him. I refuse to date a man that I’m not physically attracted to or who is boring, weak or unintelligent. He doesn’t have to be perfect or even attractive to other people as long as he is attractive to me. I’m tired of seeing both men and women judged for liking what they like. Everyone is attractive to someone and everyone is ugly to someone. Being happy with the person you are with is what matters, even if it means you would rather be single than have what you don’t want or only half assed want.

    • Anonymous

      Loving the “sexy bad boy” and detesting “nice guys” under your own consciousness does not make you a cunt. Sympathizing with the author who deems “ugly” men as subhuman species to be classified as second-class citizens makes you a cunt.

      Yes, there are many, many men who refuse to date women who are fat, short, tall, successful, and even pretty. And that is there absolute right to do so, as is your absolute right to reject men you are not attracted to. I refuse to date women that I do not find physically attractive, but the difference between me and you and the OP is that I am not going to go on the internet to overtly denigrate women for not measuring up to a physical standard that I think is acceptable for qualifying as a human being worthy of respect, civility, and the same general courtesy you and her would want for yourselves.

      If the OP wants to brool discretely to herself about how she hates ugly men like Hitler hated Jews, that is her own fucking problem. But when a cunt like her takes to a public forum to spout hate speech, then she should expect a response.

      That said, how does your statement in which you said, “I’m tired of seeing both men and women judged for liking what they like,” comport with the OP’s message to unattractive men that they creepy for liking attractive women? Are only attractive people afforded the right to like what they like?

  5. Anonymous

    If looks is all what makes you happy then so be it and if you are not familiar with the concept of grey-zones because your mind is probably conditioned by hollywood movies and unrealistic instagram/social media posts with no hope of recovery then that’s also cool.
    Although keep in mind that beauty fades. The older you get the more worn out and unattractive you will become and you will be what you define as ugly, so there’s that.
    Good luck finding a 10/10 guy as an old worn out lady.

  6. Anonymous

    I’m 15 and this explains why so many girls are repulsed by the sight of me and make an effort to avoid me. Well done on finally debunking this fallacy that personality trumps looks

    • Anonymous

      Little man don’t give up. Not all females are stuck up shallow cunts like the OP. Keep being you. Don’t let anyone ever change you and eventually you will find a girl who will love you for the person you are on the inside.

      • Anonymous

        Lol, the’re all the same. You sound exactly the same like I was told when I was at his age. Young man, you will have a chance in your early 20’s if you looksmax yourself. The most important things for women in men are pretty face (and hair), tight ass, and big arms.

  7. Anonymous

    I’m ugly male and I think you’re mostly right. Not only our approach is unwated, but I got something else to add to this. You don’t want attention of any kind from us. Like, suppose you were carrying something heavy and needed hand with a door or something like that — You rather struggle with it yourself than have me help you. Or suppose if I accidentally bump you shoulder-to-shoulder at street and you fell down — You don’t want my apology or help to get up, just to keep the fuck going. Experience speaks.

    Seriously.

    • Anonymous

      As a girl, i can confirm. A few days ago at a bookstore i dropped a few books and this guy who i found ugly picked it up for me, and it wasn’t flattering at all!!! it was kinda creepy i guess, and i didn’t wanna touch the books after but whatever. anyways but there’s just something about ugly guys that makes me shudder in the wrong way, even if they’re just helping. I start questioning their motives and even being around them makes me feel unsafe and embarrassed

      • Anonymous

        As a girl, would you be incensed if a guy, regardless of his appearance, took the same attitude with “ugly” girls? To say you are grossed out by being within a certain distance of “ugly” guys while saying in the next breath that you hate when men judge women by their appearance is grotesquely hypocritical.

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