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Ugly, creepy guys!

It’s not “creepy” if he’s hot. I freely admit it. When a very attractive stranger approaches me and tells me I’m beautiful, it brightens my day. When a guy who is short, fat or balding does it, it makes my skin crawl no matter how tactful he is about it. I just want him to go away. I’m not alone in feeling this way. Most women feel the same, but hide the true extent of it when the guys are around.

If said ugly guy doesn’t pick up on social cues that I’m not interested in getting to know him, it makes me even more uncomfortable than just him being there already does. I have to deal with this sh*t constantly everywhere I go, and it never stops. Guys, please, learn to KNOW YOUR PLACE!!! We ARE visual, just like you are. We only want GOOD LOOKING guys to approach us. If you’re any combination of short, balding, fat or 10 years older than me, please, for your own sake and mine, kindly F*CK OFF!
I don’t date your kind. Yes, I mean “kind” as in “different species”, because that’s what you are to me. I’m a human being, not an uggo like you, and I don’t do bestiality. You should be socially aware enough to know disinterest when it’s right in front of your homely ass face! Ugly men who act “confident” act out of character, and that’s creepy. Know your place and leave your genetic superiors ALONE!! It really is that simple. Don’t like it? THAT’S TOO D*MN BAD!! You’re not entitled to sex or companionship.

Many of you men reading this will tell yourselves I’m just a b*tch and delude yourselves into thinking I’m in the minority, or that this is satire. No, it isn’t. These are my honest feelings, and I’m NOT alone in feeling this way. Most women DO secretly feel this way, and THAT’s why we have sexual harassment laws! Too many of you genetic failures and guys who have aged past your prime don’t know your place and think you’re allowed the same social freedoms as a hot guy, so we need those laws to keep you uggos in your place. Either accept your role as someone of a lower class and ACT ACCORDINGLY, or it’s sexual harassement. So f*cking what if I let a hot guy grab my ass? That does NOT mean it’s OK for YOU to do it!!!

If you’re not hot, we see right through your so-called “confident” act and know exactly what you’re doing. It’s laughable. You idiots really actually believe we’re “less visual” than you, and that alone is pretty creepy. You don’t know your league and think you have a chance with someone in a higher class. Newsflash, boys: The only pretty girls who date plain guys are whoring themselves for some selfish benefit, and you guys are too f*cking stupid to see it. That’s why so many of you end up divorced and getting played for fools, then try to say all women are users and gold diggers. Um…hello?? Honest women either date hot guys or stay single, so of course you’re gonna meet a lot of dishonest people if you’re always trying to date someone above you on the sexual totem pole!

Want a girl that can actually love you instead of using you? STICK TO YOUR OWN KIND!! If you’re not attracted to women of your own class, you need to improve your looks and move up. Get plastic surgery if you have to. Without good looks, your “awesome personality” is worthless for anything but platonic friendship, and your earning potential is only “attractive” to materialistic girls. If you want genuine love or desire from a woman, she has to be turned on by you in a sexual way. Real attraction is entirely about looks, and ONLY looks. If you try to circumvent that rule, you show an entitlement mentality, and it’s obvious you think we owe you our sexual servicies.

I have an advanced degree and make a good enough living on my own, so I don’t need your earning potential or “generosity”. I have plenty of platonic friends, so I don’t need you for that, either. The only thing I need a man for is sex and reproduction. I can easily land a hot guy for marriage and relationships, so I don’t have to prostitute myself out to an average looking guy just so I can get married and have kids.

Think I’m here only to rake the guys over the coals? No. I have something to say to some of the women out there, too – like those who date plain lookin guys and hand out chances like chocolates to guys they don’t find so hot once they start getting desperate for marriage. Do you seriouly not realize how this collective settling behavior perpetuates patriarchy, male entitlement, rape culture and all the other things we fight so hard against?!?

The very core of patriarchy and all associated problems is rooted in a myth that so many men honestly believe – that we are less “visual” than they are. Many of us continue to bow to society’s pressure, outwardly pretending this myth is reality, often even to the point of essentially prostituting ourselves out of desperation for marriage/kids and rationalizing it as “love”. Then, we tell ourselves that this is what “mature” women do, because the idea that we are prostituting ourselves is too painful to accept. Men see our settling behavior and assume it’s “proof” that looks aren’t that important to us, then they wonder why they have such a lousy sex life with their girlfriends or wives.

It isn’t just patriarchy alone that pushes the “looks don’t matter” lie. Those women who settle for plain looking guys are traitors amoung us, because they play along to protect their own personal interests, and themselves shame any woman who refuses to whore herself by giving the not-hots “a chance”. Sorry, b*tch, but refusing to be bullied into glorified prostitution doesn’t make me “shallow”, and only dating hot guys doesn’t make me a “slut”. I refuse to date a guy I’m not attracted to, because unlike you, I CANNOT in good conscience sell a guy a fake illusion of “love” just to fill some unmet need. Many of you are guilty of this, and you know EXACTLY what you’re doing!

What I’m attracted to, sexually, has nothing to do with my character as a person. Yes, I want a hot guy, and I DON’T apologize for that! I can afford to be picky because I can easily get what I want. If that makes me “shallow”, than so be it. At least I’m not a settling, two-faced WHORE who lacks the self respect to stay single if she can’t get something long-term with a man that turns her on!

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  1. Anonymous

    The women’s reactions to this over at Lipstick Alley are very telling. Take a look for yourself:
    https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/the-case-against-settling.1096974/

    Here’s a list of quotes:

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    “yassss! tell them mofos 2x. if you ugly and you know it….back up!
    eta: unless you got money and can pay some bills. without sex. my dry texts should be enough for you son. if its not good enough then try looking for someone who’s “fly” matches your “fly”. get you a homely chick who will treat you right.”

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    “I understand OP. I get truly offended when men on bikes, foot, clearly unemployed, lacking hygiene, dirty hair etc. try to holla. I actually step back in surprise and I think, “Doesn’t he know I’m TOTALLY OUT of his league?” Even on my bad day in rollers and a green face mask I’m outta your league.
    Seriously stay within YOUR range of dating possibilities and don’t venture outside of it. I know it’s a numbers game with most men but you’re wasting your fukking time trying it with me.”

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    “Quote Originally Posted by blackgzuz View Post

    ‘Ugly men who act “confident” act out of character, and that’s creepy. Know your place and leave your genetic superiors ALONE!! It really is that simple. Don’t like it? THAT’S TOO D*MN BAD!! You’re not entitled to sex or companionship.’
    The bolded is true, tho. I see The Apollo Theater Sandman in my mind when these types approach me.”

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    “The writer makes good points, regardless of whether or not you like their delivery. Women are visual creatures too, and physical attraction matters for women. Personality is not and never will be a substitute for that. It is not shallow to want to be physically attracted to your own partner. It’s a basic HUMAN component. Last I checked, women are human too, so the fact this mess is even happening is nothing short of disturbing.

    There is a huge dehumanizing disparity and double-standard and male entitlement/patriarchy is a big component of that. It is sickening and dehumanizing that people force/condition women to truly believe that whether or not they are physically attracted to a man they are expected to be in a relationship and be sexual with, does not matter; but it is a requirement for men to be physically attracted to women before they even approach. Physical attraction is HUMAN, and is supposed to be mutual for two people considering a romantic relationship, not a one-sided luxury/priviledge afforded only to men.

    Stop being in denial about the fact that physical attraction matters, and stop expecting women to overlook it in men, yet allow themselves to be scrutinized for it BY men. It’s bass ackwards.”

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    “Brutal!!! BUT, I agree with her. I’m a really attractive, slim/curvy black woman, who’s educated, has great teeth and comes from a solid family.

    THAT is what I expect in a man. If you do not have good teeth keep it moving. If you are balding and overweight, keep it moving. If you are overweight keep it moving and honestly If you do not have a degree nor good earning potential please do not approach me. A man does not have to be AS attractive as I am however he at least has to be average to cute. I will not apologize for having standards. This list is the bare minimum of what I ask for in a partner. If you do not make the cut too bad, so sad.

    Theres plenty of unattractive women that need love. There’s plenty of average looking women who need love. There’s plenty of bad-bodied women who need love. Please go approach those women.

    Its not wrong of us to demand that you date within your own level. UNLESS an attractive women shows interest. Then hey! Do you.

    This woman was rude and brutally honest however I get what she’s trying to say.”

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    “I have no problems with what she said. Not a single damn one!
    These guys need to be put in their fucking place–point, blank, and period, and actually, MORE women need to be saying this stuff.
    Hell, women shouldn’t date males they deem beneath them, whether it’s looks, finances, accomplishments, education, or whatever. Women have a RIGHT to be with who they want to be with, and fucking entitled ass males need to understand this. NO woman OWES them anything. Not one single fucking thing!”

    • Anonymous

      Yep, if anything looks actually matter more to women. To quote Chris Rock. “The uglier you are the smarter and the richer you better be”.

  2. Old enough to know better

    Can’t any of you tell that this post was written by some MALE asshole misogynist troll, trying to make women look bad?
    To the OP: You spineless lying coward. If you want to attack women, find the balls to do it honestly. Fuck you.

  3. Anonymous

    you will one day hit the wall loose all sexual market value, live alone in poverty with the stench of cat urine

  4. Anonymous

    And women wonder why they get raped and murdered by these guys they think they are better than.

  5. Anonymous

    It’s honestly refreshing to see such a candid unapologetic post on this topic, the untamed female ego is a truly sexy thing. I’m an extremely vain and shallow man with no hobbies outside of improving/maintaining my good looks and nightclub womanizing. Do I feel shame over this? No. I’m simply doing what is effective. This has to lead me to be in the top %5 of men in terms of sexual partner count and having women actively chase me seeking relationships. I’m lucky that I never bought the mainstream bullshit of “be yourself” fuck that shit. Be a narcissistic bad boy with 007 inspired charm and chiseled good looks, girls couldn’t care less how “authentic to your true self” you are. Men just need to wake up (or don’t just means less competition for me) and realize the young lady behind this post is only enraging because you know she is delivering you with a harsh reality that you can’t escape from. You can keep being bitter that the world does not work the way you want it to or you can adapt to it. I Recommend AlphaM on youtube for tips on how to overhaul your looks, don’t listen to his dating advice, however, its way to beta and won’t give you a sexy vibe. Instead, read Girlschase.com for tips on how to adapt your personality to being masculine and seductive.

    • Anonymous

      Right on, bro. Fuck “inner beauty”. Fuck it to Hell. It took me 20 years of constant rejection and failure before I woke the hell up and realized just how fucking worthless it is. A man’s character is _not_ an attraction trigger. You gotta get your foot in the door. Personality only _keeps_ you there, but what good is that when you don’t have the looks to get in the door in the first place?

      I eventually got so fed up with it all that I dropped out of the game and decided to dedicate all my time/effort to improving my looks. Spent years as a total gym rat and bodybuilding fanatic. I eventually put myself back out there again, and _holy_ _fucking_ _shit_!! It’s a completely different world now. I’m loved, desired, wanted, liked, respected, trusted, etc, etc, etc. Yeah, fuck “inner beauty”. I now fully understand why good looking guys are typically “jerks”. I now fully understand why they often don’t respect women. You see a darker side of them in full display, a reality that is systematically, intentionally hidden from average looking guys. They’re _very_ two-faced. The love a women has for us, she will _never_ have for the man she eventually marries. The poor guy gets the “I guess he’ll do” treatment and is blissfully unaware of it, then he has no clue why their relationship is so full of problems.

      • Anonymous

        So glad we fucking escaped the bullshit man, congrats on your bodybuilding success. Started to really take the gym seriously myself and can’t wait to see the results, already got my face covered in the looks department so with a ripped physique I’ll hopefully be in for some crazy success ;p

    • Anonymous

      You hit the nail right on the head there! Most women won’t even be friends with guys they’re not attracted to at the most you’ll just be an acquaintance if they find you average looking or less. They might pretend to be their friend but it’s only to get something that they want.

  6. Anonymous

    What I’m about to tell you is not only scary, but revealing. The first time I saw this was at the 2xChromosomes feminist reddit. Somebody made a thread posting this rant, and ALL THE WOMEN THERE WERE AGREEING WITH IT!! The admins panicked and deleted the OP, then deleted all the comments that agreed with her. They really went out of their way to scrub all the evidence.

    This tells me many women really do think that way, but don’t want that known publicly. It makes perfect sense. If men collectively realized how visual women really were, the privileged status they currently enjoy would come to an end, and they definitely know it.

  7. Anonymous

    I’ve no doubt that this is a stunt to seek attention; to draw the attention of the people you’re talking smack about and get them all riled up, and to that extent you’ve been successful.

    I won’t berate the character you’re trying to impersonate, rather I’d like to address the one behind the keyboard (perhaps even a male) and that persons motives.
    Because if this is what you get a kick out of, then fine, by all means keep doing it. No one’s stopping you, and especially not when you’re clearly ashamed of your beliefs (what else is anonymity for? (and yes I realise I am being a hypocrite but it is fine because I’m obviously better than you, objectively speaking, of course)). I do have to admit however, that this was a fun read.

    Though you wasted your own time writing this and I wasted mine writing a response. But we’re both happy, aren’t we?

    At the expense of fragile human emotions of strangers, and actually accomplishing something with our lives.

  8. Anonymous

    All I have to say is that you are one of the ugliest humans I’ve ever encountered.

  9. Jamie

    What an awful person to think like that.
    Ever seen the film “Shallow Hal”? well if you were in it he would see you as the ugliest of people.
    Hope you feel happy about your rant, I also hope in 10 years you look back and realize the ugly soul you are today.

  10. Anonymous

    You are hilarious. How long to you think your looks alone will carry you in any long term relationship. Those “uggos” you despise are going to start looking mighty fine to you in about 10 years when your looks fade. Meanwhile an average or above average male can maintain his looks into his 50s without much effort.

    At that point, if you are alone, which seems likely. You will understand that there is more to a marriage partner than the looks you have prioritized.

  11. Anonymous

    Wow! What a life support system for a vagina. Not a thing more.

  12. ButterFace

    If a bunch of uggos are always hitting on you, theres a good chance you’re not as hot as you think.

  13. Anonymous

    Got one more reason to die…

  14. Anonymous

    We are not doing boys and young men any favor by telling them looks don’t matter to women. Women have always been told looks matter to men but many men haven’t been told looks matter to women as well. Men frequently get told the opposite.

    • Anonymous

      Exactly! Too many guys spend years trying to fix their “personality” and still fail because that was never the actual reason for their failure. They waste years of their lives trying to fix something that isn’t even broken, and end up even worse off than when they started.

      • Ugly duck

        I don’t know if you are male or female. I’m going to guess female and a shallow self centered the world revolves around me one at that just like op.

        I feel sad for women like you and op because many of you end up dying alone wirh nothing but your hundreds of cats in the end because you haven’t learned the eternal truth rhat looks fade over time but true inner beauty never fades.

        I would rather spend a lifetime married to a woman who is considered a 3 or 4 by the world’s standard of beauty but who has inner beauty that is unmeasureable on any scale than to spend 1 minute even dating a woman who ia a 10 outside but is extremely ugly like you and op seem to be inside.

  15. Anonymous

    Glad someone said it!!

  16. Tommy mcviegh

    Wow, you are a true fucking piece of shit. I swear to you, Im going to do everything I can to find out who you are, then I’ll track you down, then I will torture you until you beg to die!! Think you’re safe? Uh uh. Its easy to track on computers.

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