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Ugly, creepy guys!

It’s not “creepy” if he’s hot. I freely admit it. When a very attractive stranger approaches me and tells me I’m beautiful, it brightens my day. When a guy who is short, fat or balding does it, it makes my skin crawl no matter how tactful he is about it. I just want him to go away. I’m not alone in feeling this way. Most women feel the same, but hide the true extent of it when the guys are around.

If said ugly guy doesn’t pick up on social cues that I’m not interested in getting to know him, it makes me even more uncomfortable than just him being there already does. I have to deal with this sh*t constantly everywhere I go, and it never stops. Guys, please, learn to KNOW YOUR PLACE!!! We ARE visual, just like you are. We only want GOOD LOOKING guys to approach us. If you’re any combination of short, balding, fat or 10 years older than me, please, for your own sake and mine, kindly F*CK OFF!
I don’t date your kind. Yes, I mean “kind” as in “different species”, because that’s what you are to me. I’m a human being, not an uggo like you, and I don’t do bestiality. You should be socially aware enough to know disinterest when it’s right in front of your homely ass face! Ugly men who act “confident” act out of character, and that’s creepy. Know your place and leave your genetic superiors ALONE!! It really is that simple. Don’t like it? THAT’S TOO D*MN BAD!! You’re not entitled to sex or companionship.

Many of you men reading this will tell yourselves I’m just a b*tch and delude yourselves into thinking I’m in the minority, or that this is satire. No, it isn’t. These are my honest feelings, and I’m NOT alone in feeling this way. Most women DO secretly feel this way, and THAT’s why we have sexual harassment laws! Too many of you genetic failures and guys who have aged past your prime don’t know your place and think you’re allowed the same social freedoms as a hot guy, so we need those laws to keep you uggos in your place. Either accept your role as someone of a lower class and ACT ACCORDINGLY, or it’s sexual harassement. So f*cking what if I let a hot guy grab my ass? That does NOT mean it’s OK for YOU to do it!!!

If you’re not hot, we see right through your so-called “confident” act and know exactly what you’re doing. It’s laughable. You idiots really actually believe we’re “less visual” than you, and that alone is pretty creepy. You don’t know your league and think you have a chance with someone in a higher class. Newsflash, boys: The only pretty girls who date plain guys are whoring themselves for some selfish benefit, and you guys are too f*cking stupid to see it. That’s why so many of you end up divorced and getting played for fools, then try to say all women are users and gold diggers. Um…hello?? Honest women either date hot guys or stay single, so of course you’re gonna meet a lot of dishonest people if you’re always trying to date someone above you on the sexual totem pole!

Want a girl that can actually love you instead of using you? STICK TO YOUR OWN KIND!! If you’re not attracted to women of your own class, you need to improve your looks and move up. Get plastic surgery if you have to. Without good looks, your “awesome personality” is worthless for anything but platonic friendship, and your earning potential is only “attractive” to materialistic girls. If you want genuine love or desire from a woman, she has to be turned on by you in a sexual way. Real attraction is entirely about looks, and ONLY looks. If you try to circumvent that rule, you show an entitlement mentality, and it’s obvious you think we owe you our sexual servicies.

I have an advanced degree and make a good enough living on my own, so I don’t need your earning potential or “generosity”. I have plenty of platonic friends, so I don’t need you for that, either. The only thing I need a man for is sex and reproduction. I can easily land a hot guy for marriage and relationships, so I don’t have to prostitute myself out to an average looking guy just so I can get married and have kids.

Think I’m here only to rake the guys over the coals? No. I have something to say to some of the women out there, too – like those who date plain lookin guys and hand out chances like chocolates to guys they don’t find so hot once they start getting desperate for marriage. Do you seriouly not realize how this collective settling behavior perpetuates patriarchy, male entitlement, rape culture and all the other things we fight so hard against?!?

The very core of patriarchy and all associated problems is rooted in a myth that so many men honestly believe – that we are less “visual” than they are. Many of us continue to bow to society’s pressure, outwardly pretending this myth is reality, often even to the point of essentially prostituting ourselves out of desperation for marriage/kids and rationalizing it as “love”. Then, we tell ourselves that this is what “mature” women do, because the idea that we are prostituting ourselves is too painful to accept. Men see our settling behavior and assume it’s “proof” that looks aren’t that important to us, then they wonder why they have such a lousy sex life with their girlfriends or wives.

It isn’t just patriarchy alone that pushes the “looks don’t matter” lie. Those women who settle for plain looking guys are traitors amoung us, because they play along to protect their own personal interests, and themselves shame any woman who refuses to whore herself by giving the not-hots “a chance”. Sorry, b*tch, but refusing to be bullied into glorified prostitution doesn’t make me “shallow”, and only dating hot guys doesn’t make me a “slut”. I refuse to date a guy I’m not attracted to, because unlike you, I CANNOT in good conscience sell a guy a fake illusion of “love” just to fill some unmet need. Many of you are guilty of this, and you know EXACTLY what you’re doing!

What I’m attracted to, sexually, has nothing to do with my character as a person. Yes, I want a hot guy, and I DON’T apologize for that! I can afford to be picky because I can easily get what I want. If that makes me “shallow”, than so be it. At least I’m not a settling, two-faced WHORE who lacks the self respect to stay single if she can’t get something long-term with a man that turns her on!

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  1. Anonymous

    Sorry, No Way but we guys learn from an early age that other guys can be greedy pigs that will try to shag our girlfriends if given the chance. It’s not like I can talk because I’ve been the other guy and yes there are times when I would have happily nailed the other guy’s girlfriend. If that guy didn’t watch me like a farmer watches a fox sneaking around his chicken coops. Sometimes it was ridiculous how every guy in the a room or factory wanted to get with “Bob’s” gf and I was the only guy that “Bob” ever watched. And yes really homely women can be every bit as stuck up as the hot women. They know that they only need to wear a short skirt and they’ll have 15 guys trying to hit on them.

    • Anonymous

      Not necessarily. If a fat and ugly chick wears a short skirt plenty of guys still wouldn’t touch her with a ten foot pole. I for one wouldn’t find her any sexier.

  2. Anonymous

    Unattractive women can be entitled sometimes too. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=236545

  3. No way

    Im really good looking and girls are igorant and nasty to me..i have “game” dress nice have nice car house and ive been single for 25 years and not by choice so this is all bullshit i ALWAYS see a good looking girl with a lesser attractive guy..im about to blow my head off becausei have no social life and im an outgoing person but girls dont give me the time of day and guys are so busy thinking im gonna hop on their girl…goodbye world my pretty face is going to hell

    • deleted

      this is interesting…not sure why girls are turned off by you.
      i hope you figure it out.

  4. Anonymous

    Sorry for the duplicate post. That girl from California made me think that blondes really do have more fun. We went at it from 5 am to 5 pm 7 days a week for nearly a month. I learned the hard way to never let your friends hang around when your smoking hot ??? is present. What was she a girlfriend or a fuck buddy? I have never seen a prettier blonde. I used to have at least 10 female friends that were more than friends at any given time. Now it’s all gone. Maybe they find me unattractive now and so deep down I find them less attractive as a form of self defense? My sister constantly tells me that I want a girlfriend and that I’m in denial. I do find women to be hot but that’s as far as it goes.

  5. Anonymous

    True, men do need to work on their looks. Looks have nothing to do with true love but that kind of love is very rare. So the most people have is lust mixed with some emotions here and there and lust is based on physical attraction. To tell the truth I wish I did like women the way you guys do. I’ve heard people say that they feel sorry for me because women don’t like me. They never seem to realize that the feeling is mutual. I have never tried to ask a woman for a date in my life and it won’t happen anytime soon and I’m 43. I had a good early start. When I was 9 my 13 year old friend tricked me into getting my hands tied behind my back and she raped me twice. The second time felt so good I thought that sex was a gift that should be shared with everyone. I had sex with several girls older than myself form that age until I was 15. I was hung for a guy my age and the older girls were always horny and willing. When I was 11 I thought this gorgeous 14 year old from California was trying to kill me. We went at it from 5 am to 5 pm and we only took breaks at 9 am, 12pm and 2pm. I was worried about being a deadbeat dad until I was told that 11 year olds can’t impregnate a 14 year old. The problems began when I was placed into classrooms with younger girls. They acted as if they didn’t have a clue and they could be snobby little shits that were hardly ever sexy. They were too damn nosy to let me nail any of my hot and horny teachers. So from that point on I knew that my sex life was screwed. I slowly lost my touch and my desire for the opposite sex. Hell, now I’m not sure if I’m gay or straight. I look at sexy pictures of females, I lust a bit but that’s all. If I was the last guy on earth with a seriously hot woman I doubt anything would happen between us. I think that sex is disgusting now. When I read stories of guys sticking their fingers into women it makes me want to vomit. I went from a guy that worshipped women to a guy that can’t understand why men like women. Can a guy explain it to me? They way I feel is if a guy has needs he should get a hooker. I hate handshakes or any kind of physical contact with either sex. I feel for the guys that want attention from women but I just don’t get them. Sure they’re good to look at but that’s about all there is for me. I wish I could know what it’s like to want a woman again. I miss the old days of having crushes.

  6. Anonymous

    True, men do need to work on their looks. Looks have nothing to do with true love but that kind of love is very rare. So the most people have is lust mixed with some emotions here and there and lust is based on physical attraction. To tell the truth I wish I did like women the way you guys do. I’ve heard people say that they feel sorry for me because women don’t like me. They never seem to realize that the feeling is mutual. I have never tried to ask a woman for a date in my life and it won’t happen anytime soon and I’m 43. I had a good early start. When I was 9 my 13 year old friend tricked me into getting my hands tied behind my back and she raped me twice. The second time felt so good I thought that sex was a gift that should be shared with everyone. I had sex with several girls older than myself form that age until I was 15. I was hung for a guy my age and the older girls were always horny and willing. When I was 11 I thought this gorgeous 14 year old from California was trying to kill me. We went at it from 5 am to 5 pm and we only took breaks at 9 am, 12pm and 2pm. I was worried about being a deadbeat dad until I was told that 11 year olds can’t impregnate a 14 year old. The problems began when I was placed into classrooms with younger girls. They acted as if they didn’t have a clue and they could be snobby little shits that were hardly ever sexy. They were too damn nosy to let me nail any of my hot and horny teachers. So from that point on I knew that my sex life was screwed. I slowly lost my touch and my desire for the opposite sex. Hell, now I’m not sure if I’m gay or straight. I look at sexy pictures of females, I lust a bit but that’s all. If I was the last guy on earth with a seriously hot woman I doubt anything would happen between us. I think that sex is disgusting now. When I read stories of guys sticking their fingers into women it makes me want to vomit. I went from a guy that worshipped women to a guy that can’t understand why men like women. Can a guy explain it to me? They way I feel is if a guy has needs he should get a hooker. I hate handshakes or any kind of physical contact with either sex. I feel for the guys that want attention from women but I just don’t get them. Sure they’re good to look at but that’s about all there is for me. I wish I could know what it’s like to want a woman again. I miss the old days of having crushes.

  7. Anonymous

    So, I don’t know if this post is a hoax, written by a guy or whether the author is attractive or not. One thing I is this: She’s right. I’m an average looking guy at best. I want to have sex with the women I’m attracted to. Problem is I don’t have a chance with them. I want to find love with a woman I’m passionate for and attracted to. But that won’t happen. Here’s the thing. The women I’m attracted to or wanna be with etc. are never going to wanna be with me. Y’all can bitch and complain about the author of this but she’s right. If we’re not attractive, we’re not going to get laid every Saturday night or end up with some knock out. It’s a sad reality of life but true. Hitting on women out of your league makes you look stupid on top of being unattractive. PUA sites are selling you bullshit. Women don’t want to be hit on by us. If you we were hot it would a different story but we’re not. Genetics suck but it’s the way it is. It doesn’t mean all hope is lost. We can go to the gym, dress well and clean up. Also, I wanna improve myself for me not just to get laid! Even after all that you won’t be able to just hit on any woman. Life is a sad black fucking hole with no meaning and not fucking princess at the end of the level or whatever. Women figured this shit out a long time ago. About time we figured it out as well.

  8. Anonymous

    WTF are you talking about Gucci ?! To which people were your comment directed? And why did you call them stupid and make a quote from That Frog Kurtis? Your posts made no sense.

  9. guccimane

    know these nuts in yo mouth nigga

  10. guccimane

    yall a bunch of stupid mothafuckers

  11. Anonymous

    Ok ladies the handsome ladies’ man (Ananamo ) has finally seen this post and spoken. He’s telling it like it is for pretty boys. You all were talking about how you hate it when homely guys approach you and he just said that the hunks don’t really want any of you after the ride is over. Didn’t some of you say that homely men didn’t deserve “hotties ” such as yourselves? Didn’t you say that you deserve the hot guys? This may come back to bite me in the ass but I’m so glad the handsome guy finally intervened. As Ananamo said you stuck up spoiled princesses chase the hot guys that will never really want you and reject the guys that would turn the world over for you. I will never understand the female brain in how a 7 thinks she deserves a 9-10. There may be a few examples of hot women dating no so hot guys but most of the women I’ve seen and heard in the internet always seem to want the gy to be hotter than themselves. Homely men don’t “deserve” them yet they somehow “deserve” the pretty boys. Correct me if i’m wrong but it seems like only 3% of the earth’s female population could really be called beautiful without wearing a ton of makeup to enhance their looks. the rest are only kind of attractive and that’s with makeup. If you look long enough you can see the flaws through the makeup. Believe it or not, some of those truly beautiful females have great personalities even when they know the guys is poor. Yet we have so many wanna- be-beautiful, spoiled princesses with douchebag attitudes . I’m not saying that they’re all that bad but the op is a prime example.

    • deleted

      the problem is this….if a truly pretty girl goes for
      a homely guy, he suddenly starts to think he’s a
      stud. he starts getting all arrogant and then the
      girls think he has something going so they open
      up to him too….but then they find out he’s just
      full of hot air and the girls all discuss him and
      then he is history….
      i just think that if you wait long enough and you
      are honest with who you really are, and honest
      with the people around you, you will get a good
      reputation and then the right “lady” will turn up.
      Be someone to be admired and trusted….
      find out who you are inside….find out what you
      really want….and it’s okay to have fun, but not
      at the expense of your honor or the honor of
      others….
      couldn’t we all become a power of example to
      each other? women think that men are like dogs.
      if you behave likes dogs they will behave like
      cats…but if you behave like a gentleman she
      will behave like a lady….attitude….change the
      attitude…
      but, if you can dish it out, you can take it right?
      that’s the real message here….

      HOW ARE WE ALL GOING TO REPAIR THE
      TRUST?

  12. Anonymous

    know your place? if a man has a job ….. he can get a girl who is a 8/10+ or better to suck his dick till he comes for less than 50$. pussy? 100-220 maybe 260-300 …….

    anal ? extra tip 50-150

    prostitution. God’s way of saying , yea shes a bitch, but you have other options because your a hard worker and productive.

    because of working girls, honest nice guys. can get all the pussy they want
    and not have to deal with your bullshit.

    a peon pleeb at mcdonalds with zits all over his face could fuck a damn-near-close supermodel for 6+ hours on his weekend if he just saved a little bit of money. [$600+]

  13. Anonymous

    you remind me of some of the girls i work with in a resteraunt they are all about 8’s.
    I used to date a 13, and a lot of 10+’s. I now will date anyone 7-13+ . im refering to a 10/10 scale btw 😀 not minors.

    Anyhow a lot of these girls are pretty and have really nice butts but they are total lazy bitches with princess mentality and they seek a hot sexy man with a high income to be a total tool for them. I am skinny but very strong , about 150 lb skinny white man aged 30ish. I look like im 18-25 however. I am very poor
    my net worth is negative 20,000USD+ . These girls have recognized that i am handsome and attractive when i first met them. However after learning my financial situation and income they treat me like a scrub. like a dry dick virgin loser worthy of no respect. Problem is , I am poor, I do ‘appear’ to be just some loser, shit my hours have been cut by a female manager because she was upset with me personally further exagurating the problem, sometimes i come in unshaven or uncleaned up. Those are all poverty issues. BACK TO MY MAIN POINT THO LOL. I Have had amazing AAA+++ Sex with over 30 women in the last 6 months and i have not been in a single relationship , all of them were just sex!!!! and great sex. lol these lazy entilted bitches at work have no idea they missing out on a big white dick with lots of experience and stamina. Like i can’t even cum from a blowjob and average sex if im RUSHED is 45 min to 2 hours. I can litterally fuck you and stay hard for 4-8+ hours If you have the time hahaha. So maybe you can see how all this shit is hilarious to me? maybe that guy you identified as a scrub is acually a big dick pussy pounder and u just dont have a clue because your judging by appearance. On the flip side, when i do see girls i dress in fresh clean very nice black slacks / black dress shirt . Im not wealthy but i do look like a million bucks in just this simple out fit and some black polo shoes or w/e 🙂
    so when i am going to see my fuck buddies they see a very clean , handsome, well dressed some man whos gonna fuck their brains out , not to mention i eat pussy of 300+ times, mainly with just a few girlfriends. I havnt done that in years now tho , haha i just pound it with my dick.. anyway i hope i have gotten the point across, and expecting XXX pornography style sex in the bedroom is acually not that fucking hard, most sex i have is better than anything u see in a movie. its really not that hard to get laid in the united states, whats hard is having a relationship because 90% of women just want to use you to betterthem selves and they may not give a shit about SEX or LOVE or YOU. the other 10% are pretty cool and maybe top 1% acually ideal mutual lovers

  14. Ananamo

    This is the exact way I feel about crazy women(airheaded/attention seeking/only pretty with makeup/non gf material)who don’t know their place on the mating chart who had been chased by some way less smooth “nice guy” that would give the world to her but she instead still chased me or other hot guys you “deserve”. I got standards too, so stop misdirecting your aggression/hostility at less fortunate men look wise who do want you when you’re actually mad towards hot guys like me who don’t want to fuck you anymore now that we’ve sobered up and saw the slutty raccoon we slept with night before the next day. We find crazy bitches like you a boner killer as well physically unattractive ones bc let’s face it, there’s plenty of women to choose from and we’ll pick not terrible over terrible any day. So you subpar ladies need to stop misdirecting their frustration to ugly guys when getting rejected by studs such as myself because it doesn’t make us want you more or make you magically climb like ladder you creepy ass bitch. Ironic bc those “uggos” are the only ones that wI’ll ever want you, just a matter of time before we eat our own words. Except I’m working on it, you’re glorifying it. Kind of a dick move

  15. Anonymous

    I have a sister that is as pretty as it gets and she just said the op is a narcissistic, shallow little douchebag. She said that she hates how women like the op make other women look bad. She said that not all women are like the op. I really don’t know what to believe now. the op says it’s about damn time women admit that they only want hot guys. I have met women like the op but I have honestly met old friends that were 10x hotter than any of the arrogant women I’ve ever met. Those old friends treated me like a guy they wished they had dated even though I’m no hot stud. It’s like the truly beautiful women are more kind than the kind of pretty women that need a ton of makeup.

  16. Anonymous

    I have a sister that is as pretty as it gets and she just said the op is a narcissistic, shallow little douchebag. She said that she hates how women like the op make other women look bad. She said that not all women are like the op. I really don’t know what to believe now. the op says it’s about damn time women admit that they only want hot guys. I have met women like the op but I have honestly met old friends that were 10x hotter than any of the arrogant women I’ve ever met. Those old friends treated me like a guy they wished they had dated even though I’m no hot stud. It’s like the truly beautiful women are more kind than the kind of pretty women that need a ton of makeup.

  17. Matt

    so nice.

  18. Matt

    It’s great.

  19. Anonymous

    It’s like a big joke. The hot guys that I have for friends brag about how many women they have in their stable. They flirt with those girls and give them compliments. As soon as the girls turn their backs, the studs are telling me that they’re just another dim witted, worthless tramp. My hot male friends hardly ever have respect for the women that throw themselves at them in droves. They know that all they have to do is smile and the panties will drop. Yet women, like this one making this post, believe all of the lies and flattery because they think with their vaginas. The hot guys can do no wrong. They are never going to settle for one woman. Yet we have the average men that would kill to just have one woman and girls, like this one, treat them like garbage. She doesn’t want an average guy looking at her let alone saying anything to her. Years from now, after she’s been dumped by her 10th hot guy, she will see all of the younger, prettier girls getting all of the action and she will either go gay or she will settle for the less than hot guys. Not before she has a breakdown and decides that all men are shallow and manipulative. She will forget that it was the hot playboys that used her ass. Then again the average guys don’t really matter to her. She is proof that average men The joke is, there was a time when I thought that women were the better sex. I thought they were heaven’s gift to the world. I thought this world would be in better shape if women were in charge. Little by little I found out that women are just as bad as men and they’re worse in some ways. This woman’s post proves that. Please keep making posts like these. Average men need to wake up.

  20. Anonymous

    You see I’ve heard for years that men are pigs. Now thanks to her and other delightful posts made by other females like her, I can see that women are no better. Both sexes have their share of swine.

  21. And guy you're deluding yourself when you say that guys are that damn shallow

    There is nothing wrong with having standards. But if you think that there is nothing wrong with calling less attractive people another species you’re as shallow as this bint. She is almost saying that ugly people don’t deserve to breathe the same air let alone approach her royal highness. That’s as shallow as it gets. You don’t have to date them but would a little kindness kill you? Oh guys are the same way. Most of the hot guys I know date homely women. Some of my hot friends made jokes about throwing bags over a homely girl’s head or turning off the lights. I used to hate the male sex for that attitude but she is justifying it. The truth is some incredibly homely girls are every bit as shallow as this girl and they get away with it because the guys they chase will tell them any lie for a quick piece of ass. But I say tell it like it is honey. maybe the dumbass guys in the “friendzone” will wake the fuck up and realize their average asses don’t stand a chance anymore. Push for cheap, realistic sex dolls or push for legalized prostitution and let these spoiled princesses deal with their boytoys. Oh wait, more than likely all of the hot guys will be chasing hookers when they realize they no longer have to flatter these spoiled brats.

    • Natalie

      Then save the money you would have from getting married or dating for a few months and buy a doll and stop complaining here.

      Something tells me that’s not your point, though.

  22. Anonymous

    Thank you for this post. I used to hate guys like my handsome playboy cousin. He screws a different woman every night and tosses them to the side like used toilet paper. I was so confused and mislead. And as you’ve written I got so many hints that my homely arse didn’t stand a chance with butt ugly women let alone 5-7s like yourself that think they’re 12-14s but are too stupid to realize the playboys only love the easy tail. I don’t have any thing against decent women if there are any left but shallow bints like you deserve what you get when your hot guys tire of your vags and go after the next piece of easy shallow tail. News flash honey, it’s the hot guys that tell us ugos that women like you aren’t shit and you’re all proving them right. So thank you very much. I can give my handsome friends the credit they deserved for so long when they called females like you garbage that’s only good for shagging. I’m stuck with my hands but I would rather fuck them raw than lower myself to some self deluded bint like you. The strange thing is the truly beautiful women I met hardly ever seemed to be this shallow. It was only the 4-7s that need a ton of makeup to look like 7.5s that think they’re freaking 12-14s. If they were 3s they had to have guys that were 6-7s at least. You sound like one of the sort of attractive wenches that need a lot of makeup. Prove me wrong and link a photo. It’s fun how the male 4s get rejected by the female 3s that want the male 6-7s and those females can get them because guys have a pussy addiction. It’s not love, you freaking moron, it’s lust and when those guys get enough of your sleeve they’ll drop your ass. The pressure is on guys to like women for more than there looks yet here you are saying that females should feel free to chase hot guys only. You’re right but guys deserve the same damn thing. Why should they lower their standards when the opposite sex is finally showing their true colors? Keep on telling yourself that you can get any hot guy you want at any time. Truthfully you can fuck any hot guy but that’s all they’re going to give you. Lies, flattery and sex. Why would a hot guy settle for some shallow 7 when he can have 30 hot 8-9s? Hot guys hardly ever settle for one woman. Why would they when the world is one big pussy party with tramps like you throwing themselves at them? The real question is why so many of those hot guys become gay later in life? Oh wait, it’s because women like you aren’t shit.

  23. Anonymous

    Hi. I’m that LD adult male who rode the shortbus when he was little, who commented here recently. I’ve been lifting weights on and off since I was a teenager. For as long as I can remember hot chicks with hot bodies almost never went for a pudgy dumpy guy.

    Years ago I met a woman at work who was about the female equivalent of myself. It was like I’ve known her forever. She was somewhat tall, had long chestnut hair that went down her back, soft, smooth fair skin, and really nice, sexy long legs. I thought she was my soulmate. We had just an awesome connection. The taste of her kisses were oh so delicious.

  24. Anonymous

    Honestly. I’m a guy and I agree that women should be able to have standards and not be labeled “shallow” because they like what they like. Guys do that shit all the damn time and it’s not fair at all for it to be considered “normal” while if a girl does it shes “shallow”. That’s bullcrap.

    • Anonymous

      Oh….Wow! It’s like an evolutionary leap happening
      right here, right now, before our eyes!!! A real man
      who admits the truth, accepts it and is at peace with
      it!!! honest, honorable, and compassionate….

      i think the point is this…we all feel the same about
      things, and change as we age…we learn that much of
      what we were taught in the past could have been
      faulty…the old superiority of males was a lie….there
      is no superior really…when we are young, our skin
      is smoother, (except for teenage pimples sometimes).
      Over time, we have to learn to accept the aging
      process….those taut muscles slacken…lines appear.
      it’s okay….for both sexes…just a part of this process.
      So, okay, this lovely young lady is searching for an
      attractive male…a male who will age as she will.
      or maybe in the future they will be able to reverse
      aging…they are already figuring that out….
      some people get luckier in the looks department
      and that has to be frustrating for those who did
      not get so lucky….but most of all, what is attractive
      to each one of us depends on our definition of
      what is attractive….
      I have met people who at first seemed unattractive
      and over time the inner beauty of who they are
      radiates from within and changes how they look.
      and funnily enough….most people have something
      about them that is beautiful….sounds corny, I know.

  25. Anonymous

    Men are sick, not just in tge straight world, theg are even more sick in the gay world and more rude, theg turn tgemselves uhly and expdcg others to accept them how theh look like, i say, its ur owndumb fault for becoming a freak, should have listrnec to your body and facevmore when it warnec you, no onevtold yoh to harrass ur own body and face and turn them in unacceptable parts, it is you who decides howvtgeh turn out to be, stop blaming ur genes as you can manipulate ur genes over time, but you are too stupid to realize that, stop blaming others and start blaminv urself, dumb ugly disgusting rude egocentric disgraces of mother nature

  26. Anonymous

    I rather doubt a raging cunt such as yourself, someone who is thoroughly ugly on the inside, would be capable of keeping any man for long. And you know what else? The Wall is coming for you sooner than you think.

    • Anonymous

      At least. She knows how to survivd that wall, you dont thats our differencem uf too stupid to realize ur problem and try tl solve it, all yoj can dl is pointing fkngers and sexual harrass others as u turn yourselfin a mental disordered uglg freak thag has never been accepted by society

    • Anonymous

      the ego on this one….who would want to keep
      him!!! let him go ladies!!!

  27. Anonymous

    At last, an honest Woman. Fair play. Now, some honesty from a Man:
    ALL 18 to 25 year old Women are attractive. I would even fuck a Woman who is very overweight or who has big feet if they are that age, as youth trumps everything. Any Man who says otherwise is a lying Mangina Beta Male or gay.
    The number of Women who are attractive over 45 is about 2 percent.
    Men view young and attractive Women as sex objects. Those who are older and or less attractive will have to make do with being treated like a Human being, provided they are not ugly, lesbians or over 5 ft 8 with big ugly feet.

    • Anonymous

      Contrary to what men assume is the truth
      about aging, men are not as attractive in
      their 30’s as in their teens and early 20s…
      women USED to go for older men because
      subconsciously they talked themselves into
      being attracted to them because of the
      possibility of financial benefits…but now,
      women are opting for careers more and
      more often….and after the age of 40, men
      are even less attractive….so….the wall is
      there for men too….and hey, some women
      stay attractive all their lives….

    • Anonymous

      I beg to differ. There are A LOT of hot women over 45.

  28. Anonymous

    you have to be the most ignorant fucking bitch I have ever come across in my life. I’ve come across many, too. You top all of them.

    • Anonymous

      so, only smart women go for ugly creepy guys?
      you must be ugly and creepy if you think that
      women who go for you are smart…

    • Natalie

      You haven’t even met her…hold your horses! Do you know how hung up you are?

  29. Anonymous

    I’m curious. Where does a guy stand if he’s good looking and has a muscular body and works out and is masculine but he has a learning disability and adhd and had to ride the short bus to school growing up. A guy who isn’t exactly college material but however has a good work ethic?

    By LD I don’t mean retarded or stupid. Most LD peeps are at least average intelligence anyways. They just don’t learn the same way as everyone else.

    • Anonymous

      you sound nice…a good looking fellow…choose a
      good looking girl who will identify with your LD
      issues….you will feel less alone and share ideas
      in how to cope better and overcome difficulties.

  30. Anonymous

    We need to seriously consider government subsidized plastic surgery for all men average looking or below, plus legalized steroids. Yes, it’s a radical solution, but if we DON’T do it, society itself will find itself in severe danger. Many men are starting to wake up and realize women are indeed just as visual as men. If that becomes common knowledge, there WILL be negative consequences. The Big Lie about looks is what kept beta males docile and productive.

    • Anonymous

      http://s000.tinyupload.com/?file_id=00189884041158933542

      Forgot to mention this, above is a link to download a free “ebook” which contains all the best articles from the old LooksMatterToWomen blog. I strongly suggest you men read it if you’re looking for a successful long-term relationship with a woman.

    • Anonymous

      well, you got some of that right i suppose.
      the whole beta male thing and all….but,
      being a hot guy won’t mean you can just
      sit on your laurels and drink beer on the
      couch….
      men want a pretty gal who is smart, sexy,
      fun, intelligent, kind caring and works hard
      and loves family and all of it…well women
      want men who are productive, kind, caring
      sexy fun intelligent etc….
      and both sexes would prefer it to be about
      real true love and friendship…or any sane
      person would anyways…
      the whole power paradigm was what messed
      it all up….let that go….free yourself of ego
      trips….allow yourself to love and be loved.
      that way, who would want to mess around
      and jeopardize a beautiful family life.

      some people don’t want the family thing.
      but no one wants to be with someone
      they don’t really love enough to be faithful
      to….and being attractive is a part of it.

      then again, what if you just don’t care
      about looks? then find someone who
      doesn’t care about looks either…etc

      there’s a lid for every pot…

  31. John

    That’s why we never voted a woman as president and wont do it in near future, you will always be our cum dumpster……….

    • Anonymous

      stick it

    • Anonymous

      OMG, all you frightened little toads, terrified
      that a woman might have the kind of authority
      over you that mommy did when you were…
      (choke!)….a leetle boy!!!
      if you were okay with a woman president
      it would be because your definition of
      yourself wouldn’t just be about gender.
      it would be about being a human being
      that is capable of caring about anyone else.
      but as it is, you only care about yourself
      and your….{(“MANHOODNESS”)}….
      “said with a really really deep deep voice”.
      UGH….

  32. Adelina

    FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT! You go girl. I think the same way, honestly only looks matter to me. I also want a guy who looks good, shaves and does SOMETHING about his appearance. The only men who will pick up on you for saying these are frustrated guys who judge women based on appearance but think it’s unfair for women to judge men based on their looks. Hypocrites.
    This article describes me and most women very accurately.

    • Anonymous

      Always knew it. I never believed the crap being spread like muck by the ugly lesbian feminists.

    • Hawk

      Yes it does! Nothing wrong with that! Men and women both like attractive people!

  33. Josh clark

    It’s fine to have standards but don’t get mad when guys have them 2 and just to show
    Men -shallow about looks
    Women- shallow about money social value looks personality and other stuff
    So in fairness women are far more shallow in vein

  34. Anonymous

    Whatever makes you happy my dear

  35. Klarabella

    You are absolutely right. As women, we are socialized to look great ourselves, but to lower our standards for men. Men have been socialized that nobody cares about their looks. Wrong! It’s unfair. Men should try to look good as much as the women do now! It’s indeed like someone who lacks ambition, hard work ethic and is lazy feels entitled to hthe best job. That’s what it’s like when an ugly fat gross man approaches us. Wrinkly and buff with an ugly face yuk. And old yuk.

    • Trent

      Hon, the problem is women really don’t look that good. There are very few women out there that are freaking gorgeous with bodies to die for. I could see your point if at least 7/10 women on this planet had great bodies and beautiful faces. The majority of women and men on this world are average looking. Just look at how the media pretends that America’s actresses are so beautiful. Look at how our Miss America’s are supposed to be so pretty. Hardly any of them look that good and that’s with makeup. Most of them are kind of good looking at best. In my opinion a lot of men look just as good as a lot of women look. Maybe some guys do need to work on their personal grooming/ fitness/hygiene.

  36. Anonymous

    complete trash article. author is so full of herself.

  37. Anonymous

    Women treated me like shit and constantly rejected me. Then I had a shitload of plastic surgery, and suddenly I’m worth the time to get to know. It was the best investment I ever made, but it also revealed plainly how shallow women truly are. Personality and game are completely worthless unless you have the looks for love or the money to buy a gold digger.

    • Anonymous

      women don’t need your gold anymore…..sorry old chap

    • Trent

      Dude, if what you say is true, plz don’t insult humanity and call it love. That isn’t love. It’s lust plain and simple. They don’t love you, they want to fuck you. Love is something you get from your mom even though your face looks like it was put through and old fashioned clothes wringer. Lust is something you get from any shallow tramp that wants to hump you because you look better than a young Johnny Depp. Your mom will always be there for you. Those tramps, that you think love you because of your good looks, will drop you’re ass for a cuter/ richer guy at the first available opportunity. The saying that you can’t buy love also applies to surgery. If they didn’t love you when you were plain to look at, they don’t love you when you get hot. They lust for you. Maybe they’re not capable of real love. Just look at the author and her friends. It’s all about what THEY want. Now if you’re willing to gut yourself for their “love” then go for it. Personally I’d just buy my “love” from a hooker, save my cash and get on with my life. That way I won’t have to worry if my “loving” wife is banging the hot mailman.

      • Anonymous

        If you really actually think a woman can feel love without the prerequisite lust, you’re incredibly naive, son. Women are every bit as visual as men! Don’t be fooled by the cute girl/ugly guy couples. Many women value commitment and security more than love!

  38. Anonymous

    what a fuckin bitch !! I swear you have the ugliest personality in the universe. I hope your mother die , you father die for bringing a piece of shit like you to life you space waster. Can’t believe someone alive has this degree of shitty personality!!!! fucking god!!

    • Klarabella

      You go date an ugly woman then. No you won’t? Hypocrite.

    • Anonymous

      Oh, just relax….let the pretty girls be with the hot guys….

    • Natalie

      Why don’t you sick people ever wish you were the ones that were never born?

      That would be too nice for the rest of us if you just culled yourself. We wouldn’t have to entertain your pathetic thoughts of violence.

  39. Anonymous

    Wow, just wow.

    This has hot to be a troll post.

    If serious you really are scum.

    Newsflash you are not better than other people just because society may deem you physically attractive. You sure aren’t on the inside.

    You may get to reject these ‘ugly’ guys who are still people to btw based on a quick interaction but if they did stick around for over a minute they’d end up rejecting you anyway you toxic bitch.

    We need a human cull and entitled cunts like you should be top of the list with the paedos and murderers.

    • Anonymous

      gee, it must be so disappointing to you that
      you can’t punish women for not bowing down
      to your hineyness….

    • Natalie

      You can start with culling yourseld. We don’t need any self-righteous subhumans wishing sadistic things on others, fully believing those victims are the problem.

  40. Yes, I said it.

    Here is the problem:

    We as men are told to “just be confident”. Some of us are naturally confident and can easily make friends anywhere. Unfortunately, this leads to the wrong advice in dating. Most women will tell other men to just be confident but they are only saying that because they don’t want to seem shallow when they tel the truth, which is that they want a hot guy who is a zillionaire.

    Here’s another problem. Looks don’t last forever. I meet beautiful women all the time. I rarely, rarely meet women that I know I would want to spend my life with. What’s even more troubling is that most women think I am hitting on them even when I am only having a casual, friendly conversation with them. This tells me that they are afraid that this might be the case and they don’t want that to happen so their mind goes to the worst possible case. It’s very, very aggravating and juvenile.

    Ladies, your beauty is not going to last forever. Love can last forever, but only if it is true.

    • Anonymous

      the thing is this…if she is young and beautiful, it is HER TIME to experience all she can to live her life to the fullest, and she should….in her 3o’s she will want
      something else and she will go for that, and in her 40s she will probably start
      her own business and go for that…and she have her OWN retirement and won’t need some stupid alimony agreement…so, yeah…she’s young, hot and lucky..
      go for it girl!!!

  41. Aussie

    She doesn’t know what she wants.

    • Anonymous

      so, aussie, you do know what she wants?
      why do guys think they are an expert on
      what women do or don’t want? gee, the
      ego on you is over sized….

    • Natalie

      Only your ego believes that. Get some help!

  42. James dean

    Ur prolly ugly as hell and very insecure to spemd that much time writing all that lets see what u look like there so many corny morons out today im neber getting married cause im too good i hope u burn in hell wish i could trade my dead aunt back for u scum pice of shit

  43. Anonymous

    > will tell yourselves I’m just a b*tch

    No, that’s not my first thought. My first thought is that if a guy wrote this post saying how he doesn’t want ugly or fat women that you and your sisterhood would riot in the streets. The social justice warriors would rise and picket. You would protest “fat shaming” and that “beauty is on the inside”. We have seen it over and over.

    The simple fact is that we are all just people. Male, female, beautiful, ugly. Just people with exactly the same feelings, fears, concerns, and desires as everyone else. We all have things to offer each other; and yes, sadly things to take from one another.

    Despite that, NO ONE of any gender, body type, or age should suffer from your kind of hatred. Not for ANY reason.

    However, to me here is the most damning thing I could say. I am ugly. Shorter side of average. I’m 42… never married and yes a virgin. But, after reading your words it wouldn’t matter to me what you look like, how much money you have, or how nice you treat your grandma. I would NEVER spend 10 minutes with you let alone desire to be with you. Some might say you are a bitch sure, I simply say a waste of time and space.

  44. James Forklein

    This woman has a really ugly attitude and arrogance, never would i date someone miserable like you.

  45. Falcon

    You see, there’s a reason I stay away from egotistical women, and YOU are one of them

    • Anonymous

      jealous guy…

    • Natalie

      And exactly how do you find her egotistical when you jump to defend your ego by blaming hers as if you are fit to judge?

      Get some help and wake up before your crazy leaks out and you’re nothing but an angry, violent crazy getting it in the butt a few times a day for continuing to blame others for your own ego problems.

  46. Anonymous

    a woman finally telling the truth of wat 99.9 percent of women really think ugly = uncomftable /stalker goodlooking = lets go for a coffee or lets just go to my place for ex now

  47. Anonymous

    I’m not short fat or balding but I’m not hot either. This really got to me…I guess I don’t have a chance at anything after all

  48. Death Lord

    It’s not the fact you are only attracted to ‘hot’ guys that makes you shallow, it’s that you think you are WORTH something to hot guys. You aren’t. You aren’t special. You aren’t different. You aren’t better than anyone else. You are entitled to nothing. Hopefully, a hot guy will call you ugly and you’ll get some self-esteem issues, but I think your pride will cushion the blow. Sadly, I don’t think being sneered at and berated by all of the SMART people online or in person ever change you. Thanks for the quick laugh, though. I hope this remark stings. ;D

    • Natalie

      It’s really hard for you to stomach that she has a choice, huh? Without pathetically wishing for her to hit the wall. I’m sorry for everyone in your life because you don’t love yourself and blame others for it.

      I think you and many others here need help.

  49. Vox Veritsas

    Well, Anonymous, it’s obvious that you’re a feminist. Anymore a lot of guys will be tuned off by that. They’ll hook up with you but won’t commit to a feminist. We ‘ugly guys’ know how attractive money and success is to women. Keep your ‘principles’, there are dozens of hotter and younger chicks just waiting to be with us. Oh and Nature screws you too. Women age like milk while men age like a fine wine.
    Enjoy spending time with your cats!

  50. “I am your density.”

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